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Here you’ll find inspiration, advice, and best practice all focused on your communication skills development, managing public speaking anxiety, improving your confidence in the workplace, developing effective leadership skills, knowing how best to find a new job or career, and how to understand your strengths, skills and values.

Control the words around you, control your world

Woman reassesses life during a road trip around Iceland in November with best friend’s deaf son.

What happens when you find out your boyfriend’s not a regular bloke but a superhero.

Oscar winning Anglo-French actress disappears from the glare of celebrity and escapes to the countryside.

These are the last three books I’ve read.

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change, growth mindset, new year, career Mica Allan change, growth mindset, new year, career Mica Allan

Finding your next opportunity

Miss Fairley was put together and organised. She could get things done and didn’t suffer fools gladly. And I was sitting in her office. 

I was 15 and had been a Saturday check out girl for a year at a local supermarket. My little fingers flying over the big, grey till as, item by item,  I put through people’s weekly shop. And it was fine. Okay. A 20 minute walk from home.

 

But I wanted more variety.

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boundaries, career, learning, trust Mica Allan boundaries, career, learning, trust Mica Allan

The benefits of asking for help

The steel covers from man holes got stolen making the walk home a bit dicey, “anti-trouble emulsion” was sold in chemists and mutton was on every menu. My first few days in the city had been educational but I was ready for something different.

I had an appointment to meet someone new. At an interview. The conversation was flowing, we were laughing together and it looked like a good match. Then Jayne paused. “Wow. You really don’t know what you’re doing, do you?"

I smiled and nodded “I really don’t. That’s why I placed the advert.”

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career, confidence, creativity, leadership Mica Allan career, confidence, creativity, leadership Mica Allan

Ten top tips for more confidence

I recently wrote about my recent experience at a networking event, that women were holding themselves back and that we need to talk about confidence. In this follow up blog I’m going to share 10 ways that can develop your confidence (whether you’re a woman or a man).

This means that the next time you’re given a brilliant opportunity you’ll reply with gusto “Why of course, I will be there with bells on - just try and stop me!”

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Why we need to talk about confidence

Are you woman? Read this. Men, do you know any women? Show them this article. It could change their career.

I was recently at a breakfast networking event on the topic of listening. You know, that part of communication that we understand makes all the difference but that can be maddeningly challenging. And I learned something shocking: Sisters are screwing it for themselves.

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career, feedback, mentoring, networking Mica Allan career, feedback, mentoring, networking Mica Allan

The magic of mentoring - Part 2

Mentoring can take many forms and shapes. Here, two females born into very different worlds decades apart show the power of learning from one another.


Miranda is 7 ¾ and Stephanie is 84 ¾. This mentoring conversation might seem as likely as Depeche Mode singing about building a set of Ikea book shelves but these two females both learn from each other.

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career, feedback, mentoring, networking Mica Allan career, feedback, mentoring, networking Mica Allan

The magic of mentoring - Part 1

Mentoring is having someone in your corner to help you develop personally and professionally. Here are three tips to keep in mind.



1) Careful with the steering: learning is a process of trial and error. Be gentle with yourself as a mentee.
2) Get your go to place ready: when your head is full and you need a break this will provide you with the space to do that.
3) Find your sanctuary person: find a person who gives you unconditional support to help you through the tough stuff.

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Ten top tips for networking (or how to speak to strangers)

Great questions to develop rapport, the Dalai Lama telling it like it is and the mighty power of a handwritten card.

Right up there with the fear most people have for public speaking is walking into a room full of strangers and talking to folk you’ve never met in your life. You know the deal. Your boss is keen that you network at that event, get the word out about a new product and come back with a host of leads.

Here are real, practical ways to successfully network and be a good asset to others in your network.

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career, storytelling, report writing, writing Mica Allan career, storytelling, report writing, writing Mica Allan

Becoming a better writer

This simple exercise is fun, practical and makes people much better writers.

Small can pack a punch. A few words can distill a story as big as Alaska into the same potency as your granny’s perfume. I teach people how to write. This is one exercise that's fun, practical and makes people much better writers. It's called the six word memoir.

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