How to reduce anxiety
Why talking about your feelings is good for you.
Researchers at the University of California asked people to give a series of impromptu speeches in front of an audience.
Which meant they felt like this π±.
After the speeches half of the participants were asked to share their feelings:
"I feel ______."
The other half? They weren't asked to talk about their feelings.
Those that shared their feelings showed steep declines in racing hearts and felt calmer compared to the others - who didn't share their feelings and noticed no change.
Simply naming how we feel reduces panic in the amygdala, where we process fear and strong emotions.
"Affective labelling" - sharing how we feel - helps us identify the effect of experiences.
Tips for how to do this include:
1) Be prolific: The longer the description that you can come up with about how you feel the better. So, think quantity, here.
2) Get granular: Get really specific with the language that describes your feelings. And for here, think quality.
What are the benefits of doing this?
π― We reduce our feelings of anxiety
π― We make more thoughtful decisions
π― We plan ahead more successfully
So. Getting emotional and using our words to describe how we feel is a powerful tool. Good to know this for when you're next asked in front of a bunch of people to "just say a few words..." As you'll know what to do to calm yourself down afterwards.